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Assalamualaykum, we are currently reading the sealed nectar in our sisters bookclub but looking for more recommendations bonus if they are more simple or “revert friendly” for beginners learning about Islam!! Or any Islamic books that you felt changed your life :)
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What does Islam mean to you personally?
What are the main beliefs of Islam?
Why do Muslims pray five times a day?
What is a typical day like for a practicing Muslim?
What role does the Quran play in your life?
What first attracted you to Islam?
What are the Five Pillars of Islam?
What does the word “Islam” actually mean?
How do Muslims learn to pray?
What qualities does Islam encourage people to develop?
Why do Muslims fast during Ramadan?
What is the purpose of a mosque?
How does Islam view people of other religions?
Who was Muhammad, and why is he so important?
Is it okay to learn about Islam even if you’re not Muslim?
What advice would you give to someone who knows nothing about Islam?
What are some common misconceptions about Islam?
Which chapters of the Quran would you recommend for a beginner?
How can I tell if information about Islam online is reliable?
What convinced you personally that Islam is true?
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Salam alaikum everybody, i have a question regarding dua. So we all know dua is accepted in 3 ways: granted as it is, removes harm or saved for the hereafter. My question is does making that same dua over and over again, years even, continuously, change the way it's answered ? Like maybe it has removed a harm coming my way and since i'm still making it will have a chance to be actually granted ? This seems weird to ask but i'm genuinely wondering. If there's any people of knowledge i'd love to have an answer because idk who to ask.
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Salaam Brothers and sisters, I require assistance from a Christian revert specifically orthodox Christian if possible. I’m a revert myself but I have difficulties that need some attention. Thank you very much
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The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “I guarantee a house on the outskirts of Paradise, a house in the middle of Paradise, and a house in the highest part of Paradise for one who gives up arguing even if he is right.”
Source: al-Mu’jam al-Kabīr 217
Grade: Hasan li ghayrihi
Often times what I see on this subreddit and others is that people start out respectfully debating ideas but then soon it devolves into an ego-driven exchange. People keep on replying because they don't want the other to "have the last word." They think stopping replying means they've "lost the argument."
Often these internet arguments devolve into name calling "you're so dumb," or something. Often, I see on reddit arguments a reasonable person who's respectfully trying to explain ideas and the other person is being condescending, name calling, and not listening. I always remind the first person that giving up arguing is aligned with Islamic ethics.
Next time you are in an online debate with someone, make a mental checklist before you hit Reply each time. It is in Islamic ethics to constantly examine our niyyah (intention). Intentions can subtly change over the course of an argument.
Checklist before everytime you hit Reply:
- What percentage of my niyyah (intention) is a genuine attempt to provide guidance or exchange of ideas? What percentage of my niyyah is out of a fear of losing?
- Am I afraid that silence will look like defeat?
- Am I mocking, belittling, or using sarcasm? Is my language pleasing to Allah SWT?
- Would I be happy if I was proven wrong?
- Has the conversation become counterproductive? Is the other person mocking, insulting, or refusing to engage honestly?
Takeaway
As Muslims, we must fight our nafs to purify ourselves of arrogance. Sometimes, this can come in the form of arguing because you're afraid of looking like you lost. Even if you know you're right.
If you have made key points and the other person isn't listening, then walk away. You cannot force acceptance of an idea immediately but you can plant a seed. Readers can read both sides and judge for themselves.
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(SOME OF YOU MAY HAVE SEEN THIS POST ALREADY BUT I’M JUST RE UPLOADING BECAUSE I DELETED IT TOO SOON)
I know people say that you should never underestimate the power of Allah, but isn’t it unrealistic to make dua for “the impossible?”
I’ve finished my exams but I honestly don’t believe I did too great and I’m really worried about my grades. Not only that, but I’ve been wanting to attend a really good university and after my exams, I believe I definitely did not get the grades I needed, though I do not get my results until August. Despite the last 2 years consisting of hardcore revision and discipline, I missed many questions during my exams due to limited time constraints, and the ones that I DID answer, were not at the best of my abilities. My question is, would it be unrealistic to have hope? I really want to attend to get the grades that I know I deserve, and the university that I’ve been wanting to attend, but I genuinely did not perform to well during my exams and it’s bringing me a lot of stress and worry. I feel as if making dua is my only hope, but even with that I don’t believe I’ll get/have gotten the grades.
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Assalāmu ‘alaykum
Since my time studying in Egypt is unfortunately coming to an end, I have to start thinking about my goals and my time in the UK. One of those goals is educating and preparing myself for marriage - may Allāh make it easy for the brothers that are/will be searching.
Do you all have any tips on topics to research, and any specific material to go through?
What I currently have in mind is:
Topics - fiqh & virtues of marriage & women, women's psychology and traits, reasons for Muslim divorce, gender roles, how to give da‘wah
Materials - The Marriage Guide by Sheikh Albānī, Marital Guide by Sheikh ibn Bāz, Marriage and Divorce playlist by Sheikh Abū Suḥaib, Words of Advice Regarding Da‘wah by Sheikh ibn Bāz
BārakAllāh fīkum
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I am a 21-year-old Muslim from a Slavic/Eastern European background. I converted to Islam about 4 years ago, Alhamdulillah, and I take my deen seriously. My intention is to get married in a halal and proper way, Insha’Allah — not casually, but with real commitment and long-term purpose.
The challenge I face is my environment. I live in a small town in Germany where the Muslim community is very small, so it’s difficult to naturally meet someone with serious marriage intentions. The nearest bigger city, like Berlin, is about 3 hours away, but even that feels uncertain in terms of finding the right person.
Another issue is that I often struggle to find someone I feel truly compatible with, both in terms of values and personal attraction. The options around me feel very limited, and that makes the process frustrating at times.
At the same time, I try to stay patient, make dua, and trust Allah (SWT) with tawakkul, believing that everything happens in its right time. But I also feel I need to take more practical steps and don’t fully know what the best approach is in my situation.
I genuinely want to know what someone in my position should do to increase the chances of finding a righteous spouse with serious marriage intentions, Insha’Allah.
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So I am Christian, and I work in a large facility with a break room/cafeteria. A few times now, I have been on a break in a semi-enclosed space within the cafeteria (couch, chairs, books etc; it's pretty neat honestly), and a Muslim man has come in and said his prayers in a corner very close to me. I have always just stayed put , looking at my phone or whatever, and he has left immediately after.
Do you think the more polite or respectful thing would be for me to leave the room? I just figured not making a fuss or giving the wrong impression by getting up was the way to go, but idk. I never see the guy any other time, so I haven't asked him....
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I always struggle to say no or pull my hand away in the moment. Especially to teachers or when people are greeting a whole group of people. How do you guys do it?
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All my life i have skipped salah i cuss alot I'm disrespectful i want to learn alot about islam so that i could become peaceful a better Muslim i could debate etc etc help me if you can ty sry i dont get the tags so i might have chosen the wrong tag
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i made a promise an oath to not do something and i said if i do i wont be a muslim...but i broke it and now im scared im no longer a muslim, i never left islam in my heart it was just the promise in that moment i regret
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I'm a Muslim currently working in Japan, and There isn't a mosque near where I live. The nearest one is about an hour away by train, What troubles me even more is my job. I work at a pig slaughterhouse. The reason I came here was because my family is burdened with debt, and the wages in my home country weren't enough for me to help them pay the debt and still survive myself.
Before coming here, I applied to many places, but this was the only company that accepted me. At the time, it felt like I had no real alternative if I wanted to support my family.
I try to keep my faith, pray as much as I can, and do my best in my circumstances, but I often feel conflicted about my situation. I know what Islam teaches regarding pigs, and sometimes I wonder whether I'm doing something wrong by continuing this job when it's currently my family's main source of support.
I'm genuinely looking for advice from people who may have knowledge of Islam or who have been in similar situations. How should someone in my position approach this?
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Last year I was going through a really tough time in my life and it brought me close to Allah (swt). My mom kept telling me if I just stayed steadfast in my salah and continue to remember Allah in dhikr and such that I wouldn’t feel this pain in my heart anymore, but it just never went away no matter how close I got to Him. I’m not sure what more I can do anymore. Since then I’ve been having a hard time reconnecting to Allah again and I feel extremely guilty about it but it feels like nothing will make my pain go away. Feels like I either have really bad luck or Allah doesn’t love me anymore.
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Im chronically ill and haven’t been able to study, I’m writing my final Wednesday and I really don’t want to fail. I’ll still study but I would still appreciate all prayers
Thanks in advance
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I've recently embraced tawheed and true Islam and I feel like I'm closer to Allah than I was before and think that I was guided by Him. however my life recently has been filling up with challenges and I don't think I can ever find solutions to these problems or get relief from the things I've lost. I try to tell myself to trust His plan and surrender the things I can't solve, because I think I'm too weak for that. even after trying that, i still feel attached to the person I lost, and the immense despair I'm experiencing from the things that I need to solve but can't
I've heard you need to put in effort if you want something, but they're out of my hands and idk where to start from
so how do I trust Allah?? I want to have faith in Him and his plan but why can't I trust him enough? how do I change my way of thinking and increase my faith
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I work at a place where mostly people are Christians and Atheists. I try to keep myself in the most state of Taqwa as best I can, meaning not backbite about supervisors, do zikr and not do zina of the eyes as being in my job women wear all kind of clothes and my colleagues kind of keep on pointing this out and I keep my eyes down and keep on telling them to behave as they might be someone's sister, mother and daughter but it keeps on striking weird arguments between them and me. Now I do want to make them realize whats the best course, first of not staring at other people's body/outfits, then try doing dawah like telling them that they need to be spending time on better things like reading and indulging in self elevation and they think im either completely old school and come down even harder on me to take me to do clubbing with them or start to ridiculing me which tbh I dont feel any remorse towards. I dont know how to push this back, or ignore and not do dawah anymore or what path to take forward from here. Any help in this regard will be very helpful. Thank you
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I argued that while Christianity and Islam are two different religions, Catholicism, Orthodoxy, Protestantism are different branches of the same religion. My reasoning is that the three Christian branches share the same core doctrine (trinity, salvation through the cross, etc.) but just differ on practice and rituals whereas Christianity and Islam have fundamentally different core doctrines (Trinity, crucifixion vs Tawhid, Jesus being replaced and sent directly to heaven). Of course my underlying point is that sharing core doctrines is what differentiates a branch of a religion from a religion.
My friend argued that the different Christian branches are all different religions in the same way Christianity and Islam are different religions. He thinks that not only core doctrines, but also practice and rituals are core to the distinction. So Catholicism and Protestantism would be different religions because of papal infallibility vs not, faith plus works vs sola scriptura, etc. But I find this nonsensical though because then my childhood denomination (the United Church of Christ) would fundamentally be a different religion from United Methodists or Presbyterians, which I find ridiculous. Who do you agree with and why?
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My father was a Muslim… he wasn’t the greatest man. He died indebted to many people. He abused his children(especially me), and his wife a lot. He struggled with a lot of mental issues and his own abuse as a child. I loved him a lot and pray for him during every prayer. What can I do to help him now that he’s gone? In a couple years I’ll be a doctor InshAllah and all I want to do is give to my parents, the one alive and the one deceased. I cared for him for 6 months before he passed… I feel like that wasn’t enough. My goals atm are to help my mother first, as much as I can and if Allah allows me InshAllah. Also figure out a legitimate way to help my father. It’s been almost 3 years since his passing but I still feel grief and am conflicted.
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hi, i don't want to come off as corny but im truly desperate. i have a chronic illness that flared badly in march, this led me to being super religious i truly believed God would heal me i had some slips but in may it really seemed like i was just about better. then it flared again and I've lost all motivation. i pray before i go to bed Allah swt takes me because my physical and mental pain is too much. there is no support for my illness and my parents are starting to grow tired of me i am out of options and just want to be free of this pain. i camt shiwer or wash my hair so i feel my wudhu isnt accepted because im dirty and im too dirty to be infront of God im so lost.
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The holiest, wisest, most theologically proficient and God fearing man (peace be upon him) went through all that struggle just to get the simplest most evident and intuitive message across; that only Almighty God is worthy of worship.
Allahu Akbar.
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I’ve been struggling nonstop with Islam since about 2 years now and I just can’t seem to bring my heart any relief regarding it.
Not only do I rarely pray, which I realise is quite a big factor affecting my belief, but I just can’t seem to believe completely either. With the rise of atheism online, I find myself so so puzzled with what to believe and what not.
They bring up some logical points in their arguments like:
-Religion was created by man to cope with the fact there is nothing after death
-Religion was created by man because they couldn’t accept the fact women make life and want to control them further
And just other science related points like how heaven and hell cannot be possible and similar arguments.
Please if someone could help me open my eyes and my heart because I want to believe so so bad, I literally yearn for it, to be secure in my faith and have comfort regarding this life and the HereAfter.
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Assalamualaikum everyone,
I'm going through something difficult and I don't know how to explain it properly, but I'll try.
For the past two to three years, I've felt like nothing in life has any real meaning. Everything feels empty, not in a sad way necessarily, just hollow. Like nothing matters. I know intellectually that Islam gives life purpose, but I can't feel it. It's like there's a wall between me and that conviction.
The part that worries me most is my ibadah. I pray, but my heart isn't in it. When I try to recite Quran, something inside me resists, like I'm being pulled away from it. I don't feel khushoo, I don't feel connection, nothing. And the more this continues, the more my life feels like it's slipping out of my control. My nafs feels completely untamed.
Some people have suggested it could be the evil eye or jinn interference. I'm not dismissing that, but I genuinely don't know how to evaluate it or where to start.
My questions for the community:
Has anyone experienced this kind of spiritual numbness or disconnection?
How do you distinguish between a spiritual or psychological crisis and something like ain or jinn?
What helped you return to Allah when your heart felt completely closed off?
Any sincere advice would be appreciated. JazakAllah khair.
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 | So people say Allah is the Arabic word for God, but if that were the case if you were to translate the shahada into English wouldn’t it read “There is no God but God.” Which doesn’t make sense, however I have seen another translation which is “There is no deity but God.” Which again that couldn’t really make sense because the use of the word deity isn’t just exclusive to a creator, it may be anything of spiritual nature with significant influence but not necessarily a sole creator. Then to say “There is no God but Allah” that could not be classed as a full translation as you have not translated the word Allah which kind of brings us back in a loop to “There is no God but God” The reason I’m seeking clarity on this is because now I’m seeing “There is no God only Allah” using “only” instead of “but” suggests that Allah is implying pre existing understandings of what God is does not exist and that Allah is of a different nature. I’ll attach a picture here which sparked my thinking. As though the idea of God being a separate entity is redefined in the shahada as there is no God (separate entity) there is just Allah (the Oneness). And as Allah said all creatures submit to him willingly or unwillingly this supports the idea that all creation is one with Allah. Now, what I’m about to say may raise some eyebrows and in no way shape or form am I saying this is a reliable way to think about Islam or religion in general but I’d thought I’d share. A couple of years ago before I was even certain I believed in God I smoked DMT which is a type of psychedelic, me and the other person both came to a conclusion where everything felt one and we did not feel alone. I find it to difficult to try articulate that feeling but it was as thought there was no separate self or ego there just was this feeling everything is one. Since reading the quote below it did take me back to remembering how that experience felt. I am opposed to the idea of using substances now and I do not believe it’s the right route into understanding things but there probably are a lot of reverts who at a time wanted to seek truth so badly before we heard about Islam and likely have done these things. But it had me thinking is Allah the One or the Oneness? I’ve also heard people say that the translation of Allah is The God rather than just God which again further confuses things. [link] [comments] |
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We all fall in it. The shame, the guilt, the "how have I done this". I won't say what I did but the guilt is eating me so bad I can't even look at the mirror, literally. I know how Allah forgives all sins but I can't forgive myself. Any word of advice?
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Dear brothers and sisters,
I am a 20-year-old Muslim currently suffering from intense Waswasa.
In my family, many struggle with OCD. I personally have never been diagnosed or sought therapy. Why? I’m not sure. Perhaps I’ve been hesitant because I want to rely solely on Allah to heal me.
My Waswasa has become so severe at times that it affects my daily life. I struggle to sleep or think clearly. It is an immense burden, and as a result, I feel my Iman weakening. Every small incident triggers a spiral of anxiety.
For example, I recently created a GMX email account for newsletters, using fake details because I wanted to stay private. A test subscription was accidentally started, which I cancelled within minutes. For most people, this would be the end of it. But my brain immediately starts creating "What if?" scenarios: "What if I get into legal trouble because of the fake details?" "What if, even after deleting the account, I start receiving bills for payments I never made?"
The truth is, there was no invoice because it was a free trial month, and using a pseudonym is not illegal. I know this logically, yet my mind keeps racing. Why does my brain do this?
My parents tell me I must learn to fear only Allah, and I truly try to do that. But the scenarios Shaitan plants in my mind keep me from finding peace. This fear is consuming me. I was never a person who worried about such trivial things. When I talk to my mother about my worries, she tells me: "It won’t happen! By Allah’s will, it won’t happen! Just trust in Him."
I admire how calm and peaceful she moves through life. Her trials are often greater than mine, yet she never lets fear take over. Her Tawakkul is immense.
How can I reach that state? How do I stop overthinking and questioning every single action? How do I stop fearing things that haven’t even happened and most likely never will? Any advice or Dua would be greatly appreciated.
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Ever since last year, for some reason ive been missing my prayers more and more and I feel so guilty of it. I have been praying but not consistently. For instance, maybe today I'll pray Zuhr and Asr but tomorrow I might pray Asr and Maghrib. Sometimes I dont even pray at all. I have been in a hardship for a year now and I want this to stop. Everytime I want to pray I just purposely forget although I know skipping it would lead to a hardship even harder and it being just simply sinful. How do I start praying again and tighten my iman with Allah?
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Asalamu alaykum everybody. This is my very first post ever on Reddit. I have been struggling for a while now with a lot of things that have challenged me and my faith. I have just finished university and it is safe to say that this has been the hardest year of my life. Anxiety is destroying me. I have severe health anxiety. I pray so much to Allah.
I pray tahajjud. I studied 2 years for a medical school exam that I failed twice. My dream was to go to pharmacy school and I was rejected this year. I was rejected from 2 of the masters I applied for. I do not have many friends, if any. It is safe to say that we live in a time where I feel that other Muslim girls tend to give evil eye to one another and can sometimes belittle one another as I have consistently seen around me. I keep to myself but sometimes it gets too much. I never enjoyed university because I had no friends. I am so sick and tired of the endless nights I spend without sleep because of my anxiety.
I am anxious all the time and when it stops, I am lucky for a day or two before I pay attention to my body excessively and it spikes again. I would say my faith is strong alhamdullilah but can definitely be improved. I am jobless and have applied to so many jobs. My last job I applied for I did 3 interview rounds that wrecked me emotionally and physically and I ended up being let go after being trained in. I never felt comfortable in the job and prayed tahajjud that night and subhanallah the next day they rejected me and I went with the mentality and belief that Allah saw something I could not see, so of course alhamdullilah for that blessing.
But it gets too much sometimes. I am sad for no reason sometimes and I can’t help but feel that I am wasting my life away doing nothing. It was really bad last year and I was convinced it was evil eye as in my last job I was getting a lot of compliments and I talked too much which I stopped doing and have noticeably felt I was getting better. The truth is that I need advice with life. Why am I praying so much for something but it is not granted? I will spend years praying for something and that dream will come shattering down on me without reason. I want to be happy and healthy again even if my studies don’t fulfill me or I am not surrounded my friends. I just want my health back ya Allah. Thank you for reading this far.
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Hello to everybody in the community!
I’m writing a paper on religious views regarding drug use, including not only illegal substances but also legal ones, whether prescribed by a doctor or available to buy. It also includes cigarettes and nicotine addiction.
The premise is simple: different religions and their views regarding drug use, as well as how religious communities prevent, address and support members dealing with active addiction.
I’ve spoken to some religious leaders but would appreciate hearing from practitioners to gain a broader perspective.
Thank you very much!
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Salam everyone,
I'm actually not Muslim, I'm an antizionist Jew, but I have nothing but respect for Islam and Muslims.
I am coming here because I recently got my heart broken by a Muslim man who dated me for three years without introducing me to his parents, and who then dropped me because of them. The Muslim girlies warned me, but I didn't listen.
I'm coming here to literally beg Muslim men to, if you get into a relationship with a non-Muslim girl, PLEASE inform them of their Islamic rights in the relationship RIGHT AWAY and DON'T do haram things and lie and tell us it's halal. Please go about things the right way if you want to be with a girl. Go to your parents. Ask an imam or sheikh.
I know this isn't all Muslim men, not by a long shot, but if you are even considering dating a person of the book and doing haram things while saying it's halal, please take this post to heart. Don't get close if you're doing it in a way that will keep you from staying close.
It hurts you and it hurts us if you treat us this way.
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my body is slowly giving up on me. i have been living in survival mode for so long that i don’t remember what peace feels like anymore.
every day feels like i’m just trying to make it through the next hour. i’ve prayed, made dua, tried to stay patient, but i’m exhausted. i feel like i’m carrying years of fear, stress and pain with no real break from it.
the hardest part is that i can feel my faith slipping. i don’t want it to. i still think about Allah constantly, but i’m struggling to understand why this keeps happening. i don’t know how much more of this i can carry.
i don’t want anything extraordinary from life. i just want some relief. i want to feel normal again. right now i feel physically and emotionally worn down, and i’m scared of what all this is doing to me.
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Hello everyone. I’m a Muslim woman (ethnically Turkish but born and raised in UK) but I’m not as practicing as I want to be - as an example, I don’t currently know how to properly perform the five daily prayers, although I want to learn and inshaAllah become more consistent over time, I fast during Ramadan (and of course do not consume any alcohol or pork etc.) I try to do the best I can currently, I regularly make dua and read prayers, but overall salah is something I’m still working on learning.
I wanted to pray Tahajjud for a personal reason and because I genuinely want to connect with Allah. My question is, even though I don’t currently pray the five daily prayers, is it still okay for me to pray Tahajjud? Do you think it could still be accepted, or should I wait until I’ve learned and become more consistent with the daily prayers?
I’d appreciate any advice or thoughts, thank you everyone
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Can you guys help me with specific prayers or stuff that I can do to dream about her?
So I lost a really loved one, a girl who accepted my flaws as it is, who didn't ever get bored from me opening up and telling her all my flaws and kept me safe and even encouraged me to do better, wether it's with my relationship with God, fighting addictions and even doomscrolling. I really really love her infact I adore her.
I didn't do her justice when she were alive, I thought by refusing any form of love would I be safe, I didn't accept my feelings till she told me her lifespan, now I'm torn if I loved her before that or after it, and it just hurts so much to think that if my feelings were only amplified by it or did I really love her that. I mean I liked talking to her, starting my day I would message her, something funny I would share with her, just talk about life, waiting for her replies, I know all of that screams love but why didn't I think of "I love her", maybe because she was 2 years older, maybe because she was much smarter, maybe because she even had a guy she would always talk about.
The thought that I might have only became her boyfriend for the last days of her life because I couldn't understand my feelings hurts me so much, I rather to believe that I was lying to myself the entire time I knew her before her telling me my span.
I still adore her now I want to be hers in heaven and do her the justice she deserves.
It pains me whenever I go to sleep and I don't dream of her "does she forgive me?", "Did I love her like a partner?", "Why doesn't she want to visit me and ease life on me like she always did?", why am I thinking of her saying 'sorry, love sorry for everything" while she's crying and turning her back and leaving, I don't want that.
Also thoughts like "why can't she visit me is she in hell?"
"Why can't she visit me is she having a hard life in barzakh?" I can't help but overthink everything.
I know that with "hardness comes ease, with hardness comes ease" I want to her to be the ease our time together was short I can't handle it.
I wanted to travel with her, hang out more, go to festivals and ceremonies.
I just want to see her again, talk to her again, I want to know if she will be my wife and partner in heaven since we couldn't even reach the age of marriage together.
I'm going to become old and wrinkle and she will always be as youthful as ever I want her to see me getting older, to guide me again, to tell me "I'm with you it's gonna be okay", to tell me "I'm happy here thanks for everything im waiting for you to put the ring here just like you promised if I had time.".
I literally can't type enough so if you guys have any questions please feel free to ask.
So please can any of you help know how to dream of her, I have been praying for it much, crying while praying for it, it has been 2 months and it just gets harder.
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I recently got a job at a huge MNC and I need to know how the girls are finding corporate appropriate abaya.
I'm used wearing the hijab, and during my college I'd wear abaya but I'd remove it inside the campus since it was a women's college (yeah very normal in the place i live in) and I'm also not used to going outside alot, but since I got this job it's a struggle to find an abaya to wear everyday, sometimes it's even feel like letting go of it, but I dont wanna do that I wear my hijab and abaya for myself and my creator, but when I see people just going with their lives throwing a top and pant and calling it day, I cannot i need to think on an outfit that's breathable under my abaya, then I need to choose an abaya then I need to choose a hijab thst goes with my abaya, sometimes it feels overwhelming, but I don't wanna give on my faith, so corporate GIRLS who wear ABAYA I need you advice or just share your thoughts on this it's an open discussion
PS: DO NOT COME HERE TO TELL ME THAT MY HIJAB AND ABAYA IS AN OPRESSION, IT'S NOT.
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Asslamu alaikum! I hope everyone is well.
A Muslimah who is close with me admitted that there are multiple Muslims and non-Muslims she has slandered and back-bitten in the past. She has been able to receive direct forgiveness from some, but she has lost contact with others.
Although it's permissible to give Sadaqah on behalf of Muslim people, she is wondering if it is permissible to give Sadaqah in the name of the non-Muslims she's wronged? Would £/$100 suffice for all the people she's wronged and doesn't remember, in addition to sincere repentance? She's really desperate for forgiveness and for being cleared of this spiritual debt, In Sha Allah.
Thank you!
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