Assalamualaykum, we are currently reading the sealed nectar in our sisters bookclub but looking for more recommendations bonus if they are more simple or “revert friendly” for beginners learning about Islam!! Or any Islamic books that you felt changed your life :)
What does Islam mean to you personally?
What are the main beliefs of Islam?
Why do Muslims pray five times a day?
What is a typical day like for a practicing Muslim?
What role does the Quran play in your life?
What first attracted you to Islam?
What are the Five Pillars of Islam?
What does the word “Islam” actually mean?
How do Muslims learn to pray?
What qualities does Islam encourage people to develop?
Why do Muslims fast during Ramadan?
What is the purpose of a mosque?
How does Islam view people of other religions?
Who was Muhammad, and why is he so important?
Is it okay to learn about Islam even if you’re not Muslim?
What advice would you give to someone who knows nothing about Islam?
What are some common misconceptions about Islam?
Which chapters of the Quran would you recommend for a beginner?
How can I tell if information about Islam online is reliable?
What convinced you personally that Islam is true?
Salam alaikum everybody, i have a question regarding dua. So we all know dua is accepted in 3 ways: granted as it is, removes harm or saved for the hereafter. My question is does making that same dua over and over again, years even, continuously, change the way it's answered ? Like maybe it has removed a harm coming my way and since i'm still making it will have a chance to be actually granted ? This seems weird to ask but i'm genuinely wondering. If there's any people of knowledge i'd love to have an answer because idk who to ask.
Salaam Brothers and sisters, I require assistance from a Christian revert specifically orthodox Christian if possible. I’m a revert myself but I have difficulties that need some attention. Thank you very much
The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “I guarantee a house on the outskirts of Paradise, a house in the middle of Paradise, and a house in the highest part of Paradise for one who gives up arguing even if he is right.”
Source: al-Mu’jam al-Kabīr 217
Grade: Hasan li ghayrihi
Often times what I see on this subreddit and others is that people start out respectfully debating ideas but then soon it devolves into an ego-driven exchange. People keep on replying because they don't want the other to "have the last word." They think stopping replying means they've "lost the argument."
Often these internet arguments devolve into name calling "you're so dumb," or something. Often, I see on reddit arguments a reasonable person who's respectfully trying to explain ideas and the other person is being condescending, name calling, and not listening. I always remind the first person that giving up arguing is aligned with Islamic ethics.
Next time you are in an online debate with someone, make a mental checklist before you hit Reply each time. It is in Islamic ethics to constantly examine our niyyah (intention). Intentions can subtly change over the course of an argument.
- What percentage of my niyyah (intention) is a genuine attempt to provide guidance or exchange of ideas? What percentage of my niyyah is out of a fear of losing?
- Am I afraid that silence will look like defeat?
- Am I mocking, belittling, or using sarcasm? Is my language pleasing to Allah SWT?
- Would I be happy if I was proven wrong?
- Has the conversation become counterproductive? Is the other person mocking, insulting, or refusing to engage honestly?
As Muslims, we must fight our nafs to purify ourselves of arrogance. Sometimes, this can come in the form of arguing because you're afraid of looking like you lost. Even if you know you're right.
If you have made key points and the other person isn't listening, then walk away. You cannot force acceptance of an idea immediately but you can plant a seed. Readers can read both sides and judge for themselves.
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