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on June 02, 2026 0

Can you guys help me with specific prayers or stuff that I can do to dream about her?

So I lost a really loved one, a girl who accepted my flaws as it is, who didn't ever get bored from me opening up and telling her all my flaws and kept me safe and even encouraged me to do better, wether it's with my relationship with God, fighting addictions and even doomscrolling. I really really love her infact I adore her.

I didn't do her justice when she were alive, I thought by refusing any form of love would I be safe, I didn't accept my feelings till she told me her lifespan, now I'm torn if I loved her before that or after it, and it just hurts so much to think that if my feelings were only amplified by it or did I really love her that. I mean I liked talking to her, starting my day I would message her, something funny I would share with her, just talk about life, waiting for her replies, I know all of that screams love but why didn't I think of "I love her", maybe because she was 2 years older, maybe because she was much smarter, maybe because she even had a guy she would always talk about.

The thought that I might have only became her boyfriend for the last days of her life because I couldn't understand my feelings hurts me so much, I rather to believe that I was lying to myself the entire time I knew her before her telling me my span.

I still adore her now I want to be hers in heaven and do her the justice she deserves.

It pains me whenever I go to sleep and I don't dream of her "does she forgive me?", "Did I love her like a partner?", "Why doesn't she want to visit me and ease life on me like she always did?", why am I thinking of her saying 'sorry, love sorry for everything" while she's crying and turning her back and leaving, I don't want that.

Also thoughts like "why can't she visit me is she in hell?"

"Why can't she visit me is she having a hard life in barzakh?" I can't help but overthink everything.

I know that with "hardness comes ease, with hardness comes ease" I want to her to be the ease our time together was short I can't handle it.

I wanted to travel with her, hang out more, go to festivals and ceremonies.

I just want to see her again, talk to her again, I want to know if she will be my wife and partner in heaven since we couldn't even reach the age of marriage together.

I'm going to become old and wrinkle and she will always be as youthful as ever I want her to see me getting older, to guide me again, to tell me "I'm with you it's gonna be okay", to tell me "I'm happy here thanks for everything im waiting for you to put the ring here just like you promised if I had time.".

I literally can't type enough so if you guys have any questions please feel free to ask.

So please can any of you help know how to dream of her, I have been praying for it much, crying while praying for it, it has been 2 months and it just gets harder.

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on June 02, 2026 0

I recently got a job at a huge MNC and I need to know how the girls are finding corporate appropriate abaya.

I'm used wearing the hijab, and during my college I'd wear abaya but I'd remove it inside the campus since it was a women's college (yeah very normal in the place i live in) and I'm also not used to going outside alot, but since I got this job it's a struggle to find an abaya to wear everyday, sometimes it's even feel like letting go of it, but I dont wanna do that I wear my hijab and abaya for myself and my creator, but when I see people just going with their lives throwing a top and pant and calling it day, I cannot i need to think on an outfit that's breathable under my abaya, then I need to choose an abaya then I need to choose a hijab thst goes with my abaya, sometimes it feels overwhelming, but I don't wanna give on my faith, so corporate GIRLS who wear ABAYA I need you advice or just share your thoughts on this it's an open discussion

PS: DO NOT COME HERE TO TELL ME THAT MY HIJAB AND ABAYA IS AN OPRESSION, IT'S NOT.

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on June 01, 2026 0
Du’a For Overthinking & Anxiety 🌻

Today we are exposed to the suffering of millions of people in ways no previous generation experienced. A person wakes up in the comfort of their home and within minutes sees war, famine, floods, poverty, political turmoil, economic uncertainty, and the personal struggles of family and friends.

The human heart was not designed to bear the emotional weight of the entire globe every hour of the day. For anyone who suffers from anxiety, remember to make du’a, May Allah make it easy for all of us 🤲🏻🌻

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on June 01, 2026 0

Asslamu alaikum! I hope everyone is well.

A Muslimah who is close with me admitted that there are multiple Muslims and non-Muslims she has slandered and back-bitten in the past. She has been able to receive direct forgiveness from some, but she has lost contact with others.

Although it's permissible to give Sadaqah on behalf of Muslim people, she is wondering if it is permissible to give Sadaqah in the name of the non-Muslims she's wronged? Would £/$100 suffice for all the people she's wronged and doesn't remember, in addition to sincere repentance? She's really desperate for forgiveness and for being cleared of this spiritual debt, In Sha Allah.

Thank you!

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on May 31, 2026 0

I wanna talk about miswak: the sunnah toothbrush of our beloved prophet Muhammad, (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), the problem of all modern day toothbrushes is: they are toxic (releasing microplastics), and they pollute our planet, because plastic toothbrushes are thrown away everyday in the world, the miserable attempts of trying to fix those mistakes come to animal fur (usually pig or horse) but their problem is that they are haven for bacteria multiplication, and they fastly lose their cleaning effect. And the way they are trying to fix it is just hilarious, because they wanna make reusable toothbrushes, well to be exact reusable toothbrush holders, they wanna sell just the top heads with bristles separately from the handles, which maybe lower the plastic pollution while still leaving the microplastics problem.

Miswak on the other hand, is a cleaning, eco, hygienic, affordable and renewable alternative to the modern day toothbrush that was forced tonus by big companies, it may feel unusual the first time you use it ( maybe its specific smell,or that its a just a straight pick) , but overtime these weird feelings about miswak just disappear and the pros of miswak heavily very heavily overweight the cons.

What should i say, our Prophet's ,(peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), sunnah still beats brands force.

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on May 30, 2026 0

For me, this post is a vent and an attempt to understand others. I’m not trying to judge anyone but i’m in despair and i feel helpless not understanding others or knowing what to do.

I do not want any arguments about hijab, tabarruj or music. I know what i believe to be true and if you do not believe it to be true then this post isn’t directed at you respectfully. I want to understand those who believe but simply do not care and i want to know of those who can relate with me.

I do not listen to it but navigating everyday life without it is quite difficult because it’s everywhere. But i try my best to avoid functions with it. Culturally, music is ingrained in all cultures. It is a known part of most celebrations even something as simple as a picnic. I find that when I’m in such functions where music is played, i cant enjoy the whole thing. I end up being like a grinch and a downer. I am not comfortable and i end up feeling sad and helpless not understanding why everyone else is so hung up on music.

I become even more sad when i see children dancing to music and parents encouraging it because it is a cultural thing. It makes me scared for my own child and for the ummah. It feels like i am standing by a window looking into a room with people playing loud music, laughing and dancing and i just don’t understand.

I am trying so hard to obey Allah and i look around me and no one cares. Does it not matter? Same thing with the hijab and tabarruj. I do not like to snap pictures with others because it becomes weird to tell them not to post me when i am already in a picture with them. And then people take offense that i do not take pictures.

I struggle everyday with my hijab and i look around and no one else cares. It is not an issue of having a hijab journey. It is simply what is culturally accepted as modesty triumphing the legislated hijab and nobody cares. I am the one overdoing it to them.

So muslim girlies who perhaps understand all what i wrote and can relate to an extent. How do you deal with it? Your emotions and your relations with others? And if there’s anyone who simply doesn’t care.. what’s your thought process? What’s your plan? Do you really not care?

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on May 29, 2026 0

Assalamu Alaikum,

I have a question that has been bothering me for a long time, and I hope someone can help me understand it.

I am a Muslim, but the main reason I am Muslim is that I was born into a Muslim family. At the same time, I have friends who are not Muslims because they were born into non-Muslim families and were raised with different beliefs.

Because of this, I sometimes wonder: isn’t that an unfair advantage for me and a disadvantage for them? If I had been born in their circumstances, I might have followed the religion I was raised with as well.

This question becomes even more difficult for me when I hear people say that non-Muslims will not enter Paradise. If people’s beliefs are heavily influenced by where and to whom they were born, how is that justice ? How does Islamic theology address this concern while maintaining Allah’s perfect justice and mercy?

I am asking sincerely and respectfully,I genuinely want to understand.

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