I'm in a bad place in my life rn, please do dua for me, do dua that this doesn't affect my imaan and for Allah to protect and increase my imaan and to protect me from kufr and to give me yaqeen and to heal me. Also do dua for Allah to accept all my duas and to not let me do dua for things that aren't meant for me and to make things easy for me and facilitate what I want for me and to let me marry the person I want to marry. I don't want advice
I live in a Muslim country and I see a lack of unity everywhere.
There is so much greed and selfishness and there is a lack of sympathy and care too.
everybody is focused on money. money comes first and Islam comes second to these people.
they are involved in haram acts and it has become the new normal. no shame, no regret, just people indulging in haram.
why have we fallen this badly?
I have been to and lived in non Muslim countries too, I am ashamed that non Muslims have better unity than us Muslims. I see non Muslims taking care of their relatives, supporting each other through hardships and being kind.
why don't I see that in our ummah? our cousins, brothers and sisters are struggling and we don't even speak to our relatives. we only meet each other on events or funerals. we are too ashamed to ask our own family members for help.
I see animals like dogs and cats on the street abused and broken. nobody takes care of anything while the non Muslims cry even when a dog dies.
what has made us all so insensitive? why have we fallen down so hard?
aren't we ashamed that the non Muslims are better at humanity than us? do you not feel guilty or sad?
it makes me so sad so see what we have become. May God help us all and make us better.
ofc that's not the case in every Muslim country but in my experience this has been very real and it makes me sad.
I'm sorry if I said anything wrong, I hope the moderators don't take this post down because I really want to know what you all think about this.
the people who are non Muslims are better human beings than us and to me that's a shameful thing to be a part of. my faith in Allah is strong and I know our religion is beautiful and teaches us so many amazing things.
it is not the religions fault it is the fault of the people who are supposed to be good examples.
but why do people not learn?
I would like to get a full explanation
Assalamualaikum guys, my mom's getting a surgery soon it's on Allah's hand whether she survives the surgery or returns to him , please make dua for her
![The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "None is more patient than Allah against the harmful and annoying words He hears (from the people): They ascribe children to Him, yet He bestows upon them health and provision . [Sahih Bukhari 7378]](https://external-preview.redd.it/MDY4bDNuamsyaWlnMeT9SS3gE5DMzdYsY1sBwyENKuvndNlhECFxIsNniZxl.png?width=640&crop=smart&auto=webp&s=b21644e3734c77151ab848211cb608b35d03220a "The Prophet (ﷺ) said, \"None is more patient than Allah against the harmful and annoying words He hears (from the people): They ascribe children to Him, yet He bestows upon them health and provision . [Sahih Bukhari 7378]") |
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I'm (f) and have been speaking to (m) for about 5 months now. We had an issue or 2 with him lying to me but we overcame that and I still considered him because he apologized alot and had me gain his trust back. We have the same values, the same religious views, same way of wanting to raise childern and he will be a doctor soon and we are the same ethnicity. He works out and prays 5 times a day as well. Just one thing he said he will try his best but can't guarantee a separate accommodation for me. And we will certainly have to live at least 3 to 4 years with his parents in the beginning. He only has his parents and a sister My age and even tho I really didn't want this I decided to over look it because he has all these good qualities, and just hope we'll be able to afford a separate place. He said he's the only son so he does want to care for and pay for his parents the rest of his life, and if he does live separately he wants to live 5 or 10 min away from them. He lives in the uk and I'm from the US.
Just one thing he doesn't really make me laugh. His jokes are mostly about a second wife or joking to "annoy me". I do make him laugh but I don't even think my own jokes are that funny. I have siblings and friends where I laugh really easily and have alot of inside jokes with. Me and him have no inside jokes. Idk if it's a compatability issue or just a humor issue. Is humor really that important in a marriage? Sometimes I don't even feel like talking to him because I feel like he doesn't get me or really understand me I guess. But I also don't want to let go of someone with the right core values and he has done alot to nake it easy for me to introduce him to my parents as well which I don't think anyone else will do for me since my parents are really strict.
TL;DR: we share values and he’s serious about marriage, but there are red flags: past lying, no guaranteed separate housing, and weak emotional/humor connection. I feel misunderstood and torn between compatibility concerns and not wanting to lose someone who checks major boxes and works with my strict parents.