S.a. everyone. My mother has been diagnosed with a severe leaking heartvalve. The doctor has told us that surgery is necessary ASAP. I’m torn as it is a very big surgery (open heart surgery).
I know all things come from Allah. I leave everything to Him, but I can’t help but be very anxious. I’m an only child, and losing my mother would mean I love a big part of my life. My father is still alive and well Alhamdoulillah, but I don’t have the same emotional bond with him as I do with my mother. I can’t help but cry day and night.
I wanted to do Istikhara and advised my mother to do the same. However, as I was scrolling online, I cam across this question on one of the Islamic sites, and an Imam replied with: “As for the treatments regarding your health, you should listen to the advice of your trusted doctor as they are knowledgeable of what is needed for your wellbeing. Taking care of one’s health is farḍ and should not be taken lightly. The word of a trusted, reputable doctor is sufficient in this regard.”. Does this mean Istikhara is not necessary? Or not advised?
Can you guys tell me your experiences with it? Maybe with severe health problems that were healed after a big surgery? I think I need something to hold onto, something that’ll make me breathe out and say Alhamdoulillah for everything. I trust Allah, but I genuinely can not help but be burdened.
Thank you all in advance!
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