My brother was getting involved in bad habits. Using bad language, throwing trash under the bed, not studying and then crying on the last day and basically ruining my mother's life. My mother gets really anxious about his grades and spends a lot of time teaching him and persuading him to study. I tried to be the older brother and stepped in. I tried scolding him but at the end of the day my mother always took his side.
This one time he came back from school and started using bad language. I got angry and told him to shut it. He then started cursing at me, I started moving towards him to hit him but my mother jumped in and literally shoved me back. She didn't even scold him or anything and he laughed at me.
After that I basically gave up and we both stopped talking to each other since then and we haven't spoken for about an year now. Literally zero words exchanged.
Now the problem is that he is getting himself involved with bad friends. I heard him and his friends talking about ma****bating to girls online. Since last year he is getting worse. He has started listening to rap music, his friends are vape and talking about females level bad but not drugs or anything... I hope. He doesn't pray and mostly does whatever he wants.
At this point I don't know what to do. Should I advise my mother to be more strict on him or should I do something about it. I really don't know and would appreciate your advice.
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