Salam everyone, I had a question for married couples regarding intimacy with your spouse and any struggles couples face with Ghusl.
I've seen online that many women do not like to wash their hair everyday, and most do it every 4-7 days out of convenience + hair health and some other factors.
This had me wondering, if I was to be intimate with my wife (I'm not married) everyday, this would require her and I to do Ghusl at least once a day. Meaning, she would have to wash her hair daily as part of Ghusl. I know that only the roots of the hair must be touched with water, but I imagine it can be difficult to avoid getting the majority of the head soaked. This makes me feel bad because I've read online and heard from others that washing your hair daily can be damaging, and also a big struggle for those with longer hair so it could be frustrating. Even if my wife were to say it's not a big deal, in the end it's her who has to compromise more than I would.
I guess I can avoid this if I'm only intimate with her every 2-3 days, but that also upsets me (lol).
I was wondering how any of you married people have dealt with this? The last thing I want to do is inconvenience my wife just so I can be happy, so I'd be willing to suppress my needs but the idea of that kind of upsets me. Don't mean to sound selfish, but just being open with my thoughts. Thank you.
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