Salaam everyone,
This has been on my mind a lot lately. I'm in college, and I keep worrying that I won't be financially stable in the future, enough to really support a wife and kids.
I understand why stability matters to a lot of sisters and their families, and it’s a fair thing to want. I want to provide for my future family and I take that seriously. That's why it scares me.
My real fear is that if I'm not where I need to be financially, it'll hurt my chances of finding a spouse at all. I don't want to be the guy who gets turned down, or who has to keep pushing marriage back because he isn't "ready" yet.
I've been trying to trust Allah and His decree. I know rizq is written and that He provides. But even with that, I still get scared that I’m behind or not meant to have a family. It's hard to stop the worry, and sometimes I feel guilty for being anxious when I'm supposed to have tawakkul. Has anyone else felt this way? How did you deal with it?
JazakAllah khair.
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