Is it wrong to say bad things about my grandmother, even if she has tortured my mother for years?

I’ve been struggling with this for a long time, and I want to ask for advice. My grandmother has been mentally torturing my mother for over 20 years, and it’s had a huge impact on our lives. She made my mother pressured her to care for my uncle like he was her own son, and constantly criticized her. My uncle, instead of helping or working, stays at home, doesn’t contribute, and has caused major financial issues. He even gambled away money and put our house at risk by taking a loan in our name. ( house is not on his name )

My mother has suffered so much because of them. Even though my uncle is now around 40, he’s still dependent on my grandmother, and they’ve both made my mother’s life hell. She’s been under constant mental pressure, and it hurts to see her like this.

There have been incidents where my uncle harassed my mother, and my mama (who is in the police) had to step in to deal with him. Despite everything, my grandmother always defends him and expects us to take care of him no matter what.

It’s gotten to the point where I feel like I’m going to explode. Recently, I lashed out and said some really harsh things about my grandmother, and now I’m wondering if I went too far. Is it wrong to express anger towards someone who has caused so much pain, even if they are family? How do you deal with this kind of family pressure and emotional abuse?

I just want to know if it’s justified or if I should handle it differently.

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