Salaam everyone! I’m (25F) writing to see if I can get some advice on a dilemma I’ve been having. So I still live with my parents and I’ve gone through a rough year with them last year. There was a righteous Muslim man I met that I wanted to marry but my parents brutally rejected him simply because of the country he was from. I’ve decided to leave the situation for peace in myself and my home but I can’t help but still feel anger towards the situation.
They said hurtful things and the bottom line is that it was simply pure discrimination. This situation has sadly changed how I look at my parents, and I feel like I still have those lingered anger feelings towards them. Some of the views and beliefs my parents have on certain topics I strongly disagree with, and again it just makes me so upset. I find it harder and harder to live with them because of this.
I feel that these feelings have sometimes made me speak to my parents in a way that may not be considered the most respectful, and I do genuinely feel bad about it because I know how much respecting your parents is important in Islam. However, it can be hard to control sometimes because of those unresolved feelings.
I guess the advice I’m looking for is if anyone went through something similar with their parents and how did you ultimately stop or control the angry or negative feelings towards them.
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