As salamu alaikum Brothers and Sisters. I am a new muslim (in America) who has been in islam for a few months. I do not know what to do with my situation. I have an interest in a Woman I know who I speak to often. She is who showed me Islam.
I am going to a type of school and we both live here. We had a relationship almost as soon as we met and she showed me the beauty of Islam. I know the relationship was haram now. We decided to be just friends (I know this isn't really a thing and that is part of my issue) as we know a relationship in that form is haram and both realize that we need to work on our deen get out of this school and get on our feet before working on marriage would even be reasonable.
I speak to her Father figure very frequently about Islam and I have been given the conclusion that as I said neither of us are ready and we need to work on ourselves first, where as at first marriage was looked at as reasonable so it isn't a matter of me not being accepted as far as I can tell, only that it would be destructive as of now.
We have told each other we both value each other as someone in each other's lives and we will just stay as friends. I am fine with being friends and want her in my life regardless I just have some stresses and things to consider regarding how to handle this.
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I get the feeling we still have feelings for one another and don't know how to approach her on this to see if we still want future courtship.
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I don't want to be too distant from her and break the bond we have and come off as if she is not important to me yet feel conflicted as I know I cannot associate with a woman like that
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I have no Muslim family to confide in to figure out what to do and do ask Allah(swt) about this
Please make dua for me to move forward with this in a way that pleases Allah. I truly have alot of love for this person. please ask any questions you need to help you answer me there is alot to this thank you.
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