Assalamualaikum I’m a recent convert (it will be 1 year this March) and this will be my first Christmas as a convert. My family doesn’t know and last year I got away with not going because my father had gone with my brother and my mother took me to my aunts house and COVID was still pretty bad around me so it wasn’t necessary. Now it’s a little different as my brother has moved to another state and my mother will be out of the country so it will just be me and my father which he will 110% be expecting me to accompany him to Christmas mass. Ive been trying to come up with ways to excuse myself but every excuse I come up with seems to not be good enough for me to not go with him. I’ve even considered getting a fake job and saying I have to work. I missed Easter by spending the weekend with my friends and he was very upset and angry and got loud and hostile with me. I’m not ready to have the conversation with my dad that I converted so that’s not an option. My father is also sick with cancer and holidays like this mean a lot more to him now so me not going with him will only hurt him deeply especially in a time where I’m his only family member around. Please help, I don’t know what to do.
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