So im from pakistan and also sadly supposedly from the lineage of the prophet and his family or whatever. When i was first taught about what a blessing it is to be this caste i used to pride myself as a kid. i thought it was the most amazing thing in the world. Now that I'm grown older i feel like my life is a curse. Sometimes i plan to run away from home and honestly i probably will at some point. The reason why is because of the family pressure that gets forced on girls that want to marry someone thats not syed. I'm stressed out beyond measure...words can't express how im feeling right now. I don't like anyone I'm being told to marry yet im being forced to have this barrier between me and someone i genuinely want to marry. If youre a girl and you marry a non syed family ties are instantly cut, people avoid you like plague, or they pressure you and your spouse so much until you end up divorcing each other. Absolutely disgusting. And the guys are lucky they get to marry whoever they want lololol some get married to 4 damn wives at a time. I just- Why? Please just why? Why does this nonsense still exist?
They treat marriage of a syed woman to a non syed man like it's something haram. Actually not just haram but beyond the pale of islam. I swear there is no point in me being alive anymore. I want to marry someone Im attracted too like thats what getting married is all about lmao. The funniest part of all of this is that all this syed bullshit is completely fake and even against the teaching of islam where you aren't supposed to force your daughters to marry someone they dont want to. I said to my family they arent even practicing islam and they just keep on repeating the same things "No we must not marry anyone thats not syed because the prophet family didnt." And i give them proof that his family did actually marry others and they just shrug it off and are like "We are sorry, but our family respect will be tarnished if you do that." I guess ill just marry some random indian shia syed guy that cant even speak english properly and live with it as long as it pleases my family.
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