I’ve had enough of my father. Before any of you try to lecture me, I know I have make my father fontent with me and never hurt him in any way, but he is just over-using power he doesn’t have. I’ve lost count to how many times my father has been abusive to my mother (verbally and physically) that I just have zero respect for him and really really hate him. He always used to be violent with me and all my siblings when we were young but now we are all adults and im the youngest, in college first year. As a human being, and as a son of my mother, and foremost being a muslim, I just cannot stand idle while my mother is being abused. I know I will be judged for it, but I hit my father so hard after he again assaulted my mom, again. It basically led to a series events which led to me and my mother living alone.
My question is: Even though I hate my father and don’t respect him, how can I still have a relationship with him that will make him content with me and at the same time help him become less abusive and controll himself?
Side question: My feelings of hatred towards him are way past any treatment and they can’t be healed. If my father hopefully enters Jannah, can I choose to never see him? This is very important for me because even though I heard we lost our negative feelings and bad nature in Jannah, I don’t want my father to be my neighbor in there if we inshallah both enter.
Please guys before lecturing me understand that I am beyond that level after my mother has been hurt so much before. My father abused an authority he never had, which I can’t just accept anymore and I think what I did to him is the best way to clear it out.
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