I have been tasked to give advice and “the talk” to a relative who’s about to be married. I have an issue.
1- I got married a while ago, the relative who gave me the talk on request of my mother- well, I’m sure she did a good job but I don’t really remember what was said. I seem to recall it wasn’t any advice I didn’t already know.
2- Please don’t judge me here- I think my relative is a lot more innocent than my husband and I were. We were love marriage. Here, they are arrange marriage and significantly more religious.
Ladies, what do you wish was told to you? Please feel free to DM me if you’re not comfortable with a public comment.
Things I’m not certain if I should say-
So far, I want to let her know that it’s ok not to jump in straight away. Get comfortable. It’s your first time, yes, but it won’t be your last time. We live in a world that glamorises relations and it’s not like how you see in media- there’s plenty of time to get it right! This sounds so weird, I hate this task.
Also, about ghusl and the proper way to do it. - I think that’s a must but I don’t know how detailed to be. Shall I just print off instructions?
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