Falsely accused of a Grave sin and how to forgive the accuser

Assalaamualikum brothers and sisters,

I (21 M) am currently living in London with my parents. My family has had a very rough past, but in summary, my mum suffered from numerous cases of abuse from my father which my siblings and I all witnessed as kids.

This has in turn led to my mom become somewhat mentally affected too. Also despite this my mom is (and always has been) a very pious person Alhamdullilah, I've learnt a lot from her.

So I have 5 siblings, the youngest one being my 4 year old sister.

I'll cut straight to the point my mom is accusing me of doing inappropriate things to my little sister.

This is not the first time, 6 months ago she accused my 13 yr old brother along with me for the same act. After she came to understanding she begged me for forgiveness, which was really hard for me to do at the time considering my own mother had accused me of such a foul act, but I came to.

A couple of days ago I realised my mother acting very distant to me, she told me I'm not allowed to carry my sister or be anywhere near her. I confronted her about why and she kept trying to dodge the answer. My siblings were all in disbelief and tried arguing with my mother but she failed to come to an understanding. She has no evidence to back her claim yet she is so adamant.

My sister is only 4 years old, but whenever she does things like hugging my leg or sitting on my lap my mom would berate her, and it only makes me feel worse, thinking to myself what have I done wrong.

Also to be accused of such a foul act hurts my heart hurt like nothing else, especially when it is coming from my mother. I've come to a point where even if she does come to her senses, i don't think I can accept her apology, as her throwing these accusations shows that she thinks of me in a certain way.

Furthermore, I feel robbed of having any sort of relationship worth my little sister, I try shun her away from me whenever she comes to my room or asks me to play with her.

I'm considering going to my uncles house tomorrow and telling them the situation, Wallah I am so hurt and in such disbelief right now, any form of guidance would be appreciated Jazakhallah

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