My question: What can a person do if their own mother is doing Sihr on them?
I'm a 27 year old man in the UK and it seems that my mother has been doing Sihr for my marriage to split. And I want to know how to combat this as I love my wife, she is pregnant with my child but we both really hate the way the marriage is right now.
My mother is a clinically undiagnosed narcissist (it would be difficult to get a narcissist to go for a diagnosis anyway). She is also very physically and mentally abusive and I would go as far as to say that none of her children (including myself) were allowed to develop and grow with full mental well-being. She herself is not mentally all there. She smokes cannabis daily also and has delusions of grandeur because of the narcicism. She always used to say that any woman I marry (of my own choosing) would dupe me and turn me into their slave (i.e. I would work and all my wage would go to my wife). When I was younger, my mum always used to say that when I start working, after finishing my education, I should be giving her however much money she wants from my wage, without caring that maybe I want to save for myself. She sees her children as her slaves and doesn't think that anyone else should get any pleasure from us. She previously wanted me to marry a woman that I was not attracted too and she was absolutely adamant that I should marry that woman (because of her family's status), despite the many times I refused because of not being attracted to her. I am the first child 27, and I have two younger sisters, 21 & 14, we are all from different dad's, my mother has never been able to get along with any man to stay married to him for too long.
The signs of the effects of Sihr are there (I.e. marital problems causing a much bigger issue than they should and marital problems coming from issues that should be easily resolvable but for some reason or another are not). She has verbally admitted to my sister that she has done Sihr on me for various reasons, such as making me go back to her home and giving her all my money, also for my marriage to split. She has also previously admitted this to my wife (a woman of my own choosing), including the sentence "you will never be pleased with him". Unfortunately, I stupidly brought my wife to stay in my mum's house for a short while and I'm sure this would have given my mother ample opportunity to collect materials to do sihr, not to mention that she treated my wife miserably with verbal abuse, stopping her from using the kitchen at all etc. As you can tell, my mum is a really horrible person and I've had to detach myself from having any feelings for or against her. For now I have moved hundreds of miles away from her with my wife and I don't plan on telling her that my wife is pregnant. I have told her that me and my wife are divorced.
I have also been told by my mother (and some other people), that because she's my mother, she doesn't need my hair or nails or to know the name of my parents etc to do Sihr on me, she said that because she's my mother, any magic she does on me will be stronger. My mother recently has become extremely mentally unstable, my sister said that in the middle or Ramadan she was calling a man, in our home county in West Africa, to perform more Sihr in the middle of Ramadan.
What can I do about this? My own mother is doing Sihr on me, even if I get ruqya and resolve this, I'm worried she can just do this again. Please let me know what I can do.
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