Assalamu alaikum brothers and sisters , I just got out of a very serious relationship with a very kind person . I (20M) was with her (20F) for over a year , we are related through our parents and we both decided to end it because we felt hypocritical. We both are practicing muslims and initially thought that if we gave ourselves restrictions and boundries we could do it , we hardly ever met , used to just talk on call or text for the whole period of the relationship. But as practicing Muslims , something always bugged inside me that even though it's the most minimalistic thing we were doing , it was wrong anyhow . I'm starting off college and I so I also agree that this is a prime time to focus on myself and build myself so I know the decision I made (we both did) was for the good for the both of us. I do want to say one thing though , that she had a very positive impact on my life , both spiritually and professionally . I want to work hard on myself and make a man out of a boy that I am. I want to be a good Muslim . And I also do want to in future go to her father to ask her hand in marriage as, if Allah wills it , I hope to be with her following the rules of Islam .
So now I want to ask you , is it okay for me to dedicate my youth on working on myself and also get close to deen (in shaa Allah) and want to have a choice of getting back with someone very nice when the time is right? People who have quit haram relationships have mainly said that they ended things and then went on to different paths altogether because the two of them did not share same islamic views . I want to strive to be the best version of myself and then go and do this as has been prescribed in our religion (if Allah wills it of course).
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