My first Duas for my bachelor thesis were not answered but further duas would be kind :(

I don‘t know if some of you remember me, I wrote in here 3 weeks ago.

Basically my professor answered me in the worst way possible, he got personal as well eventhough he does not know me personally (like he never actually saw me). I know it sounds exaggarated but it traumatized me because he attacked my topic, my understanding of the topic and me just to tell me after 2 1/2 weeks of wasting my time that he actually has not enough knowledge of it.

I am now scared to death and struggled with depressive thoughts because of his treatment of me. I had issues before of course, his treatment just triggered my mental health issues.

I wanted to ask you if you could still keep me in your duas, prayers and thoughts.

I‘ve been studying since 2015, changed my major 2 times and this is truly the final hurdle I need to get over. But it seems so scary, big and uncertain because I have no control over it since the other person (the professors) decides over my future.

I‘m burnt out and tired. I‘ve been in therapy since 2017 and recently had to start a new one. I even had a clinic stay in 2018 and I had to try several medications for my mental illnesses.

Eventhough I‘m close to the finish line, it now feels like I‘ll never reach it. I am scared my other 2 options of professors will react the same as him and that I won‘t be able to graduate by summer.

My family tries to tell me that it was not meant to be with this professor and I acknowledge it. I didn‘t have a good feeling with him.

But now I‘m helpless and scared that it will continue to happen over and over again. I don‘t know Allah‘s plan for me, I‘m scared of uncertainty. I just hope I get revealed what was meant for me and that Allah protects me. I just want to be done with this, it has compromised my physical and mental health for years.

Please please please make duas for me that so eone accepts me to supervise me and my topic. I would even change it if needed.

I am doing my duas too however I feel like mine are not really heard. I prayed so hard and it didn‘t happen. I‘m scared that this will always be the response to my duas.

I‘m sorry if it comes across as me struggling with faith, I believe in Allah 1000000%. I just feel like I‘m either being punished or that I‘m not loved eventhough I should know better than this, I can‘t get rid of the feeling that it‘s all my fault and that I deserve it.

Sorry for the rambling but thank you if you‘ve read everything :(

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