My father's sister called my parents few days ago requesting to give my hand in marriage for her son, she said a refusal would break her heart. I grew up thinking of my cousin as my brother, my parents are very close to him and treat him like their own son, thinking about marriage makes me feel sick because he's always been a big brother to me. It was a no for me but my parents still said that take time, i sat down and talked to them again to refuse her right now because it's giving me anxiety and I am only 19. I thought they would support me and understand my choices because marriage is a lifelong relationship, you have to be very sure about it. They ended up saying they are ashamed of me that today I am standing against them, they told me how I am going against islam by rejecting a proposal that doesn't have any flaw in it. They didn't understand my point that my heart doesn't feel comfortable, they feel like as if I've betrayed them and failed to be a good daughter. It's making me so anxious that did I really sin for rejecting a good proposal just because i think of him as my brother. I am fearing the punishment of Allah that I rejected something that was sent in my life. My parents aren't talking to me, i feel so helpless.
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