AOA everyone. I don’t know where to post about this but I’m a 20 year old girl and have a problem. Since my online school has started, I find myself in situations where I’m rude to my mother. I love her so much and usually feel extremely guilty for my actions but sometimes I want to rip my hair out.
My mother is a lovely person but she does some things that really bother me. The biggest thing I think that bothers me is that she always barges into my room without a warning and I’ve told her countless times in the most respectful manner that I would appreciate if she could knock on my door but she takes it as a sign of disrespect and says “I’m your mother I can come whenever I feel like it be ashamed of yourself”.Also, I don’t have a lock on my door, my room didn’t come with one and my parents refuse to put one on. My dad on the other hand always knocks and we have no issues. Another thing is most of the time I feel very emotionally and mentally exhausted, especially now with the stress of online school. I’m doing online school at home and my mom she adds on to my stress by giving me lectures and unsolicited advice on things I didn’t ask for. She will say things like “drink your milk or your bones will be weak forever” and do this and that. I know she does that out of a place of care but seriously hearing it whenever I see her is so draining. The last thing is she also complains about me and something always and will turn my good mood into bad one. Sometimes when she says something that triggers me I react in a rude way and talk back to her and honesty I hate myself for that. May Allah bless my mom a long healthy life and give me guidance. Please give advice on this I really need and want to stop acting like a mean person to her at times but sometimes I feel compelled to saying something.
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