I'm a moderate Muslim that never engaged in Zina and have recently found the person who I'm about to marry had engaged in zina countless times over many years.
The thought that I had restricted myself for marriage feels unfair when someone shared their special moments with someone else.
However, I am divorced and have experience, it's not the experience per se, but the fact that she shared herself with so many others before marriage as a Muslim, that weighs heavy on my mind.
Is it normal that I compare myself to their past lovers?
Is it fair that I think the moments I shared with them have been shared by many more before me?
Is it right that in my mind if she was a divorcee, it would make the past more bearable because it's in a marriage setting and more halal and respectful?
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