Assalamualaikum brothers & sisters
A few years ago, my wife was a victim of a slander by her friends, as well as her officemates and along the way, from some of my own relatives as well.
Being with her through all the drama, I know for a fact that whatever she went through were slanders and was no fault of her own. She may have said a few things here and there which caused some discomfort to others, but I would say it had no direct relation to what ultimately happened. I will of course not go into detail of each issue.
Although it has happened for quite some time now, and she has (what I thought) moved on, once in a while she will have depressive episodes where she will do a total recall of what happened, and be very down. For example, she had one about an hour ago.
I try to talk sense into her, that she is in a better place now, Allah has taken her out from those toxic circles where people were always talking shit about each other. She has the opportunity now to concentrate on close family, as well as her ibadah. But she feels, that she is a bad person, that's why Allah has given her this fitna for her past sins. Plus, she thinks that those toxic parties of the past are not going through any hardships like her, so means Allah loves them more. Social media does not help in this aspect, as she will once in a while see those people flexing on IG and FB, and make a conclusion.
So my issue is, I'm trying to look for any information from Quran and Hadith, with regards to the calamities that befall a person, that it is not due to the reasons that the person was "bad" before.
I have always told her, all this was a blessing in disguise and that Allah loves her by taking her out of those circles, but she's just not registering it. Keeps reiterating that it's ALL her fault and Allah does not like her.
Really appreciate any help or input anyone can give, jazakallah
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