I’ve been tested with this trial by Allah. Life is not easy at all. I pray/fast/read Quran. My community is great so alhamdulilah I haven’t gotten into things like drugs/alcohol etc...
I will say this clearly I have never had or plan on committing zina. I want to marry a Muslim woman because I do want kids of my own and companionship. Here are the some of the options I’ve been thinking about.
1.) marry a girl and never disclose my situation, if push comes to shove play the I’m “asexual” card (someone suggested this before.)
2.) tell the girl about my situation initially and if it’s something she’s fine with then possibly get married.
3.)find another Muslim lady in my situation and maybe tag team this trial in dunya together ?
The first option seems like the worst as I would hate to “lie” to my future spouse. Last thing I want to do is make my spouse feel unwanted/depressed about our relationship for reasons she doesn’t know. The first option would be the worst for both parties. The other two options seem fine, morally to me at least.
What do you think? How should I go about this? Any other things I should consider?
Any stories/anecdotes/examples are appreciated.
May Allah guide us all ameen.
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