So one of my friends has very poor manners and it irks me. She comes over to my place a lot to hang out (she's Muslim) and I really like her except for one thing: she eats all my food without permission.
I always offer her food and drinks right away but she will say she's not hungry/ already ate so I'm like okay cool. But then she'll go into the kitchen, rummage through the pantry and take whatever she wants. I mean a heaping plateful. Which is cool, if it's just once. But nooo. Multiple times she'll get up, go back to kitchen, rummage through the pantry/fridge and take out MORE food. And keep eating. Then go back and repeat. It's like she never gets full. Sometimes she'll grab a spoon and start eating directly out of the pots that are sitting on the stovetop. Wtf?? It bothers me so much because not only does she take A LOT, but she never asks if it's even okay and I feel disrespected. I've literally started hiding my favorite foods in my bedroom so she won't finish it all lol.
I am getting so annoyed by her. Unfortunately, she's super sensitive and I know if I bring this up with her she'll be hurt and upset. She's the kind of person that takes everything to heart. Also Islamically am I just supposed to suck it up? Cause of hospitality towards guests? At what point can you call a guest out for rude behavior? She's otherwise a really kind and sweet person and a great friend. Idk I'm just so annoyed by this behavior. Am I being stingy/overreacting?
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