Caring too much what others think?

Salaam,

I have this problem of caring too much about what others think of me, especially the wrong people (people who don’t care for me and were mean to me WITHOUT me doing anything wrong). It feels like my heart is too attached to dunya and it’s really bothering me because I still harbor some negativity toward these people, even though on the outside, I am nice and smile to them because I do not want to hurt anyone’s feelings. I find it hard to forgive and not be prideful inside even though I know that’s not allowed.

1. How do I care less about invalid opinions of me? (Note: I say invalid opinions because i am not a perfect person and people’s opinions can be right and I always take that into account)

Jazakallah Khair

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